The Secret to Transforming Your Life

Niket Gupta
2 min readOct 13, 2023

In the journey of life, we often find ourselves yearning for change, for a better version of ourselves, and for harmonious relationships. But how do we bridge the gap between our desires and reality? Join us as we explore a powerful transformation story that reveals the missing link between aspirations and achievements.

Recently, one of my coaching participants faced a challenging situation. Her mother’s health was deteriorating rapidly, and it was causing her immense worry. However, there was another concern gnawing at her soul — the fracture in her relationship with her ailing mother. The bond they once shared was slipping away, and she felt helpless.

Desperate for guidance, she turned to me for answers. But instead of providing a quick fix, I introduced her to a transformative system — a system that fosters awareness, enabling individuals to discover their own solutions.

Our journey began with a visioning activity. As we delved deep into her hopes and fears, tears welled up in her eyes. She realized that if things continued the way they were, her relationship with her mother would shatter into irreparable fragments. The pain was palpable, but her determination to mend what was broken was even stronger.

Next, we embarked on the one-year outcome activity. She envisioned a future filled with a healthier, more amicable, mutually understanding, and supportive relationship with her mother. With newfound clarity, she crafted an action plan to bring this vision to life.

But here’s where the real magic happened. Through the Identity process, she had a profound revelation. She recognized that her current mindset was a far cry from the one needed to execute her action plan in the face of challenging circumstances. This epiphany became a monumental breakthrough.

Just like our coaching participants, many of us aspire to achieve great things in life. We diligently create action plans but often fall short because we neglect a crucial aspect — our own transformation. It’s time to ask ourselves: What kind of person do we need to become, and what mindset do we need to cultivate to bridge the gap between desire and reality?

Are you ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and transformation? Stay tuned for more insights and actionable steps on how to unlock your true potential, transform your life, and mend broken relationships. Remember, the power to change lies within you.

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Niket Gupta

Career and Mindset Coach and Author of "Why Not?". Helping professionals become an exceptional performer by building superior self-awareness and identity.